A group of rapists and date rapists in prison were interviewed on what they look for in a potential victim and here are some interesting facts:
1) The first thing men look for in a potential victim is hairstyle. They are most likely to go after a woman with a ponytail, bun, braid or other hairstyle that can easily be grabbed. They are also likely to go after a woman with long hair. Women with short hair are not common targets.
I've even drawn a *ahem* not so artistic cartoon for easy remembrance :P

So I guess its best to dress in layers?? And clothings which arent so see-through that allows guys imagination to go wild.
3) They also look for women on their cell phone, searching through their purse or doing other activities while walking because they are off and can be easily overpowered.
X busy with phone X digging purse
4) The time of day men are most likely to attack and rape a woman is in the early morning, between 5 and 8:30 a.m.
That's the time when most of us are the sleepiest and aren't fully aware of our surroundings.
5) The number one place women are abducted from/attacked at is grocery store parking lots. Number two is office parking lots/garages. Number three is public restrooms.
Be extra careful at these places.
6) The thing about these men is that they are looking to grab a woman and quickly move her to a second location where they don't have to worry about getting caught.
7) Only 2% said they carried weapons because rape carries a 3-5 year sentence but rape with a weapon is 15-20 years.
8) If you put up any kind of a fight at all, they get discouraged because it only takes a minute or two for them to realize that going after you isn't worth it because it will be time consuming.
9) These men said they would not pick on women who have umbrellas, or other similar objects that can be used from a distance, in their hands.Keys are not a deterrent because you have to get really close to the attacker to use them as a weapon. So, the idea is to convince these guys you're not worth it.
Keep one hanging on your arm, super handy!
10) Several defense mechanisms he taught us are: If someone is following behind you on a street or in a garage or with you in an elevator or stairwell, look them in the face and ask them a question, like what time is it?, or make general small talk, I can't believe it is so cold out here, or we're in for a bad winter. Now you've seen their face and could identify them in a lineup, you lose appeal as a target.11) If someone is coming toward you, hold out your hands in front of you and yell Stop or Stay back! Most of the rapists this man talked to said they'd leave a woman alone if she yelled or showed that she would not be afraid to fight back. Again, they are looking for an EASY target.
12) If you carry pepper spray (this instructor was a huge advocate of it and carries it with him wherever he goes), yelling I HAVE PEPPER SPRAY and holding it out will be a deterrent.

15) When the guy puts his hands up to you, grab his first two fingers and bend them back as far as possible with as much pressure pushing down on them as possible. The instructor did it to me without using much pressure, and I ended up on my knees and both knuckles cracked audibly.
16) Of course the things we always hear still apply. Always be aware of your surroundings, take someone with you if you can and if you see any odd behavior, don't dismiss it, go with your instincts. You may feel a little silly at the time, but you'd feel much worse if the guy really was trouble.
Hope you all have learnt something from here :)
now this is some very useful facts! should use this for my martial arts class! :D
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ReplyDeletewow! thanks girl for the facts. very useful! =)
ReplyDelete" Women with short hair are not common targets."
ReplyDeleteSo thats why u cut your hair? LOL~